Thursday 12 July 2012

Proud to be Average!



One month ago I decided to write a blog for a renowned website. I did not have any great ideas. I wanted my first blog for the website to be a master piece. I wrote a few words but I couldn’t feel the basic catch in it so I put it aside. Later after thinking about it, I considered writing about that one outstanding or perfect thing that may have happen to me.
To be honest, the list I came up with was empty. This made me gloomy and I started to feel anxious. That’s when my brain was revolved towards the fact that nothing is perfect in life. Now in this case, why should one try so hard to achieve a goal of perfectness which one could never accomplish? What can I do to be perfect or to make things happen perfectly in my life?
Maybe I can never be a perfect person, father, husband or brother. Maybe I am just an average person. Or an average father who never shows favoritism among his children. An average husband who does not love his wife too much or too less.  Or could I be that average brother who is neither boastful nor afraid to show his protection for her sister. Is it a good thing to be an average person?
Every person lives their own lives which makes them think they are no more than average people. If they would have been given a chance to swap their lives with anyone, they might understand how much better their own life is.
Let me draw my conclusion, if you think you are an average person then it means you are normal. If you are normal, you will adjust with people easily. If you can adjust with people, you’ll make a lot of friends. If you make a lot of friends, you will never be alone in life. That is how you will stand out from other people and this is what will make you special. As somebody said, “There’s an outstanding story behind every average person.”