“Best friend.
If you are around the age of 16, this term will sound
familiar to you. If you have graduated from high school, this term may sound a
little childish. If you are married already, this term then only refreshes some
old good memories from the past. What the term, ‘Best Friend’, is for you? Let
us talk collectively.
Best friend, a person who takes care of you, a person who
is there when you want to share any sad or happy happening, someone who is
always there when you have to finish your homework, somebody who will give you
some advice even if he’s the master of immaturity, someone who call’s you every
time you get into trouble or someone who is always there to give you that
soothing hug. Do you think all the traits mentioned in the past few sentences are
definition of a Best Friend? I respect your opinion if you said, YES!
Let me tell you what I think is a best friend. A person
who you care for, someone who promises you to call you whenever he/she gets in
trouble, someone who trust you and made a decision to depend on you after
seeing if you are that person, someone who you love to the end of life and can’t
think of a future without them.
See the difference? In the first place, He/she was your
support in the life but be a supporter. As we know, everything in life has a
dark side. It can be totally opposite too. In some cases, your so called best
friend only uses you to get their work done. That best friend is not your best
friend. It is always a mutual relation. If he’s good at something, you are good
at something else. You help each other to groom in life. The other aspect;
sometimes your love for your best friend becomes so much that it only hurt you.
Be sensible there. If he/she doesn’t response then it doesn’t mean that your
friend is just resisting back. It means he/she is not ready for this and they
will get your love sometime in their lifetime. Then at that time, they will
come back to you in their present.
The situation discussed about was a worst situation but
most times, you only love any person if he loves you. Now you know if you are a
best friend or who is that friend which you love more than any person alive in
this world.
Another aspect of this best friendship hood; when you
think a lot e.g. what if you lose your friend, what if he dies, what if he’s
not that rich. And you start to think of the solutions. A very simple solution is
recommended for that. It is here down below.
“Remember one thing, thinking about the past take you to
the past but it is not helpful. Thinking about future will only make you waste
your present but thinking about your present will help you to make good
relations with everything in life.”
Hope everything made sense here for most of you.
Inspired by My Best
Friend.
Can’t think a
future without you.
Thank you. “
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